Thursday, September 22, 2016

Contortion update: Ankle-grabbing... getting there... sorta!

So... we are officially entering Autumn tomorrow! With the changing of the seasons, my stretching practice times have shrunk considerably with school and work :/. I have not lost any of my newly acquired (ninja) skills over the Summer, but I have been doing just enough to maintain them and to progress at a snail's pace... which is still progress, but very frustrating!

I have been practicing doing oversplits and needle scales over and over and over, in addition to basic stretches. All of this just to gain more flexibility in my back. Like I said in a previous post, when it comes to flexibility, there just seems to be no end in sight! So now that I can get into a chest-stand, next up is being able to grab my legs while back-bending. Starting at the ankles, and then working my way up.



I will be going on vacation soon (will still be stretching every day, of course!), but hopefully I can twist and mangle my schedule enough to allow for those long serious stretching sessions of Summertime when I get back.

♥ Bambi

Monday, September 19, 2016

Apparently my pictures are tasteless...

Update: I just want to THANK each and every one of you who have sent me words of encouragement, whether it was from yesterday or from earlier in my training. It just reaffirms that this community is, in large part, full of good people willing to learn, willing to share, and just willing to be open-minded in our journey to better ourselves. We may share differing views on fitness, but we can all agree that this is no place to demean and pull people down. What makes this place so wonderful to me is that in seeing others actively push themselves towards their goals, it PUSHES me to do so as well. And for that reason, I am not going any where. You all inspire me, and will continue to do so!

Normally I would not give this stuff the time of day; but I have heard from many, both men and women, who have experienced similar things, so I will acknowledge it this one time.

A lot of creepy things derive from this site. Those of us who put ourselves out there risk having our pictures stolen and put up on websites and adverts that we have no association with whatsoever, being stalked on personal sites, and garnering attention from sociopaths who get off on demeaning others.

Lately, I have been getting threatening messages from an individual, or a few individuals. I would not know, since the coward does it anonymously. His latest gem:


To be honest, I am not really that offended, since these are run-of-the-mill nasty remarks. But I AM baffled by what this person could be getting out of doing all this. What thrill could a person get from being so hateful?

Okay, I admit... I am a tiny-bit offended. Not so much by the attacks on my character, but by the attack on my craft and creativity. I do not think my pictures are tasteless at all. So, cordially, a **** you to this individual.

♥ Bambi

Sunday, September 18, 2016

Maintaining an hourglass.

As any woman on here learns, we cannot spot reduce where we want to lose fat. Once one place starts, the others follow. Face, arms, thighs, waist, buttocks. And...


... boobs. I have heard and read of many of my sisters' plight. It is always a constant recitation of alphabets reading backwards. We know our D-C-B-A's very well. But it is one lesson most of us would not mind forgetting!

I now stand at 34-25-35. So in trying to maintain an "hourglass" figure, I am now looking at more crunches (especially side crunches for the oblique muscles to keep the midsection fit), lunges, and some weights to balance out the upper and lower body.


It is, essentially, a fine balancing act. I will win some and I will lose some. But somewhere in that middle ground is a Bust & Buttocks utopia!

♥ Bambi

Saturday, September 10, 2016

Another belly-dancing video...

Been taking a belly-dancing class since last month. Five sessions in so far. And yet within that time-frame, I have learned so much about arm and foot work, and working the torso more. I am in love with Egyptian belly-dancing!


At the last session, the instructor told me I could be a pro if I keep at it. That was definitely motivating.


♥ Bambi

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

Can do a Chest-Stand... at last! (Video)

Months of hard work and determination have finally paid off! My back flexibility has given way enough for a chest stand. Man lands on moon. Chest lands on floor! And I am just thrilled :D!


This basically opens up a whole branch of others things I could attempt and learn, once the chest stand becomes a common stretch in my repertoire. It will not be smooth sailing; but if I have learned anything from all of this, it is that if I keep putting in time and effort into something, it will eventually happen.


♥ Bambi

Thursday, August 25, 2016

Leg over head stretching video.


From yesterday's afternoon workout. Although the chest stand is my main goal, I am also working on other forms, such as oversplits.





And there is nothing like a comfty book read right after a workout. (Pictured: Human knot pose)

♥ Bambi

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Stretching only requires Time.

When it comes to stretching, you never abandon the basics. You build on them. There is no finish line that lets you know whether or not you have mastered something. There is always room for improvement. There is always that extra inch you can squeeze in (and boy do us us ladies know this)! So, essentially, the only main difference between a beginner and someone doing more advanced techniques is the *time* that has been put into stretching. If you would have asked me to do a back bend exactly a year ago, I would have just laid on the floor flat as a board. I have been training for ~9 months now, and I am still stretching all that has been accumulated since Day 1.

Such as the Cobra pose (pictured) to loosen up the back muscles. For me, this along with a few others I mentioned before is awesome for gaining flexibility in the lower back. It is a basic yoga pose, but an essential one, especially for those starting and those with back pain. There is not one session that I do without it. Basic stretches like the Cobra made something seemingly difficult like the back bend possible; and they are now helping in reaching my next goal: the chest stand.


My hamstrings stretching was not always this linear. It took *time* to get to where it is now. Flexibility does not happen overnight, so do not become discouraged if you find yourself incapable of pulling something you see in a picture or a video. Results can come in days, weeks and even months, depending on the pose and difficulty. And like I mentioned in the beginning, there is always room for growth for any pose.


The only true "hard" part is setting aside at least 15 minutes a day for stretching.

♥ Bambi

Tuesday, August 16, 2016

When you do not have a training partner...

... you improvise.

By tumbling against walls.




By getting into awkward "eek!-back-spasm!-how-am-I-going-to-get-out-of-this?!" situations on a weekly basis. (Pictured: Yoga Scorpion pose)


But I would not have it any other way.

Yes, having someone around with similar interests to help motivate and push me would probably not be so bad. And yes, I have lost count of the amount of times I thought "screw-this-I'm-having-ice-cream-LOTS-N-LOTS-of-it" when I was not getting the results I wanted. BUT through the thick of it, I have learned some valuable personal perseverance and self-discipline, that go beyond these workouts and these pink walls. Standing on my own two feet (or having my feet in the air :D), and not having to rely on someone as a crutch is a wonderful thing.

♥ Bambi

Saturday, August 6, 2016

Thursday, August 4, 2016

Monday, August 1, 2016

What is Bambi up to now? Belly-dancing (video)!

So I took the day off today due to waking up with a swollen eyelid yesterday (lol :/ FML), which has not completely disappeared just yet. I went on a hiking trail in the mountains the day before, but I am not sure if that had anything to do with it. So here I am home and blogging. Originally I was not planning to share this other love of mine, but I figure why not.

I am self-taught in most of my hobbies. I seem to enjoy exploring things for myself, whether it be contortionism, yoga, belly dancing... the list goes on. I have taken aerobics and dancing classes before, but there is just something about learning things in solitude. I like the quiet and the personal space. I like learning and cherishing moments, silly and profound ones, at my own pace. This makes me more liable to mistakes... but I think that, in a morbid way, is part of the fun.

The dancing is far from perfect. And as with every thing else, I am working on it... and enjoying it at my own pace! Finally figured out how to record for longer periods too!



♥ Bambi

Monday, July 25, 2016

Spooky.


Stretch daily and you can be this spooky as well.

♥ Bambi

Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Thursday, July 14, 2016

Splits video & flexibility updates.

The past week was brutal. Not in the sense of having endured soul-sucking, back-breaking intense workout sessions, but in the sense of mental fatigue and feeling like an extra on "The Walking Dead". I did not get enough sleep on some nights, and on nights where I did, I still woke up feeling less than 100%. SO it may not have much to do with the amount of sleep, but the quality of sleep I have been getting... Will have to look into this.

This pretty much sums up last week for me, with all its awkwardness and confusion:

By the way, love this movie! And if you know what it is, I will love you too :p.

Chest-stand: I have been slowly inching my way down towards the floor mat. Since my last update, I have reduced the distance between my chest and the floor by 2"! Still have about 10" to go. Can it be done by the end of Summer (September) as I planned?!!! I flipping hope so!

Flexibility: I have not lost any flexibility, despite the zombie-week of poor stretching sessions. But I also did not gain any either LOL! In regards to a few stretching poses, I think I have gone as far as I could with them, such as the front split. It would be awesome to have my, uh, lowest region COMPLETELY flat with the ground, but that is not going to happen any time soon with these thighs lol. And after much extensive research (yes, googling), it would not be anatomically possible to do at a "healthy" weight.


♥ Bambi

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Tum-tum.

Could use a little definition, yes?


♥ Bambi

Wednesday, July 6, 2016

4th of July shenanigans!

Hey everyone.

Hope you had a pleasant 4th! And if it was not a holiday for you, hope it was still a good Monday!

I spent the whole day out at the beach, the park, then back to the beach, from noon till 10. Silly me did not think about waking up early on a HOLIDAY to do some exercises beforehand, so I ended up improvising. On the bright side, I finally got to work on my nonexistent tan... one month into Summer, ha!


I brought along some work-out clothes and hula hoops last minute. Managed to do some cardio running and hula-hooping, with some basic stretches, but no serious exercises at all. Would be uncomfortable doing them around family and friends, let alone in a public area with strangers around! (... which is a little ironic, since I have no problem sharing them with thousands of anonymous people online apparently LOL.)


So, if you ever see a twenty-something girl awkwardly doing hula-hoops out in the open somewhere...

♥ Bambi

Thursday, June 30, 2016

Wednesday, June 29, 2016

Chest-stand update and progress pictures!

Currently stuck at the elbows. Can I has more upper back flexibility right away, please?! I am determined to get this done before the end of Summer...


And is any one getting tired of seeing pink leotards yet lol?

The Splits



♥ Bambi

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

My stretching routine.

I have been getting asked what I do for my stretches, so I figure I will explain it in detail here, as opposed to trying to explain it individually.

First off, I am no expert. What I do know is from what I have read, learned, and experienced first-hand. We are all individuals with different fitness goals and different starting flexibility, so you may find other stretching techniques to be more appropriate for you. It all comes down to what your body feels comfortably doing, i.e. stretching should never be painful!

There are a handful of different "kinds" of stretching, but the main two are static and dynamic stretching. I do both, with static being the most prominent in my routine. There are people who believe that it is better to do dynamic only, and they may be right... for some people. My focus is on increasing my flexibility substantially, and static stretching is better suited for that. If you are looking to just maintain your flexibility or to increase it enough for a full range-of-motion in your exercises, just dynamic stretching should be fine. It all goes back to what I said before: different things work for different people.

A significant difference between static and dynamic stretching is when to do them. You can do dynamic stretches as a warm-up or before a work-out. Static stretches, on the other hand, should be done only after a warm-up or a work-out. Put them all together and this is how a simple stretching routine would look: dynamic stretching, warm-up/work-out, static/dynamic stretching.

What I do:

- A few minutes of dynamic stretching (back, chest stretches and small lunges) to prevent stiffness in the warm-ups.

- 30 minutes of warm-ups (running, jogging and, yes, hula hooping :p) to warm up the core. Body temperature plays a HUGE role when it comes to stretching and flexibility. There is a reason why there is such a thing as "hot yoga", where people practice in rooms of 100+ degree heat. Higher body temp = more loosened muscles = more stretching. So with that in mind, do some serious stretching indoors if it is a cold day out!

- 1.5-2 hours of static stretching (40 min for splits, 40 min for back bends and 40 min for handstand/forearm-stand/conditioning). The emphasis of these stretches is on back flexibility, which is what I am getting asked about most. Obviously the general person is not going to need to stretch for this long lol, but the more time you put into it, the more flexibility you will maintain and gain. In general though, 10-15 min of simple static stretching should be fine.

For back flexibility, the best ways to increase it are:

The Cobra Pose

The Bow Pose

And the Bridge Pose

- I stretch every day. The general person can get by doing it maybe 3 times a week, although I would say that you should do it every day that you work out! It is good for your muscles. And you have to stretch on a regular basis to maintain whatever flexibility you gain. There have been a few times where I did not stretch for 3-4 days or even a whole week, and you bet I lost some flexibility in just that short span of time! Just like any other aspect of fitness, good flexibility requires commitment.

One other thing that can affect stretching and flexibility is eating food high in potassium (my favorite being bananas). They will help prevent muscle cramping.

So... I think that about sums it up. Hope this answered some questions and won some people over to do stretching exercises!

♥ Bambi

Friday, June 24, 2016

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Some videos from before.

My camera records only 30 seconds at a time, so they are really short clips, and you can see me sort of rushing through the poses to try to fit them into the time frame.

These are from a while ago.

The first is of me doing a back-bend against the wall. By constricting myself against it, it will help make my bridge be "tighter" and more compact. And please ignore all my funky body spasms! LOL :/ Normally I am MUCH smoother in my transitions, but again, I tried to fit it all into 30 seconds.


This is of me doing a back-bend / bridge without the support of a wall. Obviously, it could be better. As my back flexibility increases, the better it should look.


♥ Bambi